Have you ever witnessed the crowd of people who dash to their cars on Sunday morning as soon as the Pastor/Speaker closes with his or her message? I’m sure for some there are legitimate reasons such as a work schedule that can’t be altered or perhaps even commitments at another place of worship. In general the view is that the main portions of the service have been completed and that once the message has been given there is nothing of real significance remaining. Today I beg to differ and suggest that one of the most precious times in worship still remains and is often times underestimated and overlooked.
The benediction-the Final Blessing is rendered at the very end of the service. This has been a formal part of worship since the beginning of time. In history, the benediction was a very formal part of service that often involved preparation and also maintained specific rules about who was rendered ineligible to perform it.
Today, you can probably attest to hearing this or some form of these words if you stay until the benediction is rendered:
“May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.” 2 Corinthians 13:14
We all come into the church with our own baggage, our own faults, our own set of issues. Prayerfully, we are all at a place where we recognize the altar of sacrifice has been made on our behalf and we can leave with a renewed mindset and determination to be better and do better than we have done (with the Lord’s help.) I believe the benediction in worship is sooo important because from my perspective it puts us on equal footing to go out and face the challenges of the day (God asks us to only be concerned with one day at a time) with a renewed hope that the best is yet to come for each of us who have accepted Christ as our Lord and Savior.
I believe that in Corporate Worship we should adhere to the ordinances of the benediction with very little deviation but I think each of us should also prepare a “benediction” of sorts as we leave people, places and principalities that have come to an end in our lives. Be willing to make peace with relationships and situations including those you never get all of the reconciliation and resolution you hoped for or wanted and for some endings accept that you may never understand why. Regardless, God is calling us to extend to others the same grace that He has so graciously extended to us.
Be honest with yourself and when you are ready, call, write or communicate in whatever way the Holy Spirit moves you but create a benediction or final blessing that you earnestly make first in your heart and then with the persons, places or otherwise that you will depart from. Trust that God will give you the words to say and direct you in just the right way. Whether you will be the giver or the recipient make a habit of staying for the benediction-the final blessing before departure.